Monday, March 2, 2015

Break out of your comfort zone

If dating has not been successful for you so far, there is probably a reason!  People need to break out of their comfort zones and break their "dating rules".  People have rules ranging everywhere from not dating coworkers to rules about physical appearance such as not dating men with beards.  These rules are usually based on some sort of past experience, but you need to rethink your rules and be open to new experiences!

If you have too strict of rules you may miss out on some really great people.  There are already limited places to meet new people in an environment you're comfortable with.  Breaking out of your comfort zone is so important to open yourself up to new people, new opportunities, and new LOVE!

What are your dating rules keeping you safe from?  If you're reading this, you're probably single and your dating rules are probably keeping you a little too safe.

Stop listening to other people's dating rules.  Rules like not accepting a late invitation to a date because it is a sign of desperation are just plain outdated.  Maybe they had a last minute idea for a date or just want to see you and not wait a week.  A few more super outdated rules include wait three days to call her, don't get involved with a coworker/customer, always let the man handle the bill, don't sleep with him/her for ____ amount of dates, etc.

It's time to break out of your comfort zone.  It's time to break outdated dating rules.  It's time to break your dating rules.  It's time to open yourself up to new experiences and start enjoying dating!

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-Bailey